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ikj, 26 pv 2008

`mbko - D [ճu@i' kmhlH& DuJ[ Dճpl JjCl Duu Jճ&UbcO cLu oUk bv `nml KUl Ƶ#C' DC [@. Dpճ lcnC bv `cub YkvJ kJm' Dյ k<ճbkj mklb$ ci&o&v Ju. Jճ&Ub n i<kj...
hub Y<l huJ (h@jv) cnCp Yp. hC huJ yoծ mch&J H[ Jjճծ cnub lj lu h - hnCb, u - hilJ[ u# oCb, J - J JjCj DLk JJ v JjCj...
huJ n cubm Ju Dkճk DOJ khjll, hϵvծ Gj cnCp Kjb lj cbo n Dmճu nkb. hC Gj lb Gijuu nl Jbk mll u jnCj lb[ծ hf. YkvJ nj n Kj [Jwծ KU p ov KUu pl. mpC huJ DC kkJv huJ lu Yo mcpv Iճu nk. mpC huJ cnCp Do&ko huJ p cubv Jmb kikb v Jmb ki vճ yu Din DmCj huJ DC kkJv huJ cnCp kmlv hlv kծj JjCj huJ. p youl hjmLlvmj kծj Jjll, mlJ& Dmll.
hlJ kճծ cuծ Jn v Jn mcm Dmllծ, hC kճvmj lծb mkթh youlb. cnCvծ cuծ kծj, lծ Ykv, kJwl JjCծ hl u#l Iճu nkl. SKo i cuu u#l k, m huJbv kikiȳ lNnv kծj Jv mbiճu nk. hjmLl youl vml, lcծ oJv c$ you Jl. lcU cub kilv hjmLlǮ kmlv kծj Jj v lvmj ki. cu p i Dk[v Jjlb v p i lu Jjճu uill, Dյ ib o Jj DC lu vk[v Jjճu uiCN i Dk[Ǯ J Jjl lu, J[ u# hjk.
Ykv DvYkCծ, khjCծ, kJwl JjCծ, DUKCծ, u#l kCծ, llv ƵJCծ, Ykv mcpCծ DC c@vp JjCծ vmi&J #cl cnCp Fcvu Fbupvm. vk pvcuu yUln n Jn hcCl Ghpl Dml. yUծ yyll DF& iY&lv ynj Duvblj Dio mklu Yl n hnu hճj Dml. yUu pj Yl ku vn, lj l mkl mj#ll DC mkn&kum h{ hkub GuCj vn. (Ykv DvYkCb). Dhu mj#ll lpkp knk, cnCv Iyjuub yU ci Dhu YlǮ khj Jjlb. DF&yy ci lu Guv Ilb, ibpjlb. (Ykv khjCb)

 


lnv - YJ uiukj cu j[lb. Gc YkvJ nj Dmuub cu YJ[ hmjCSkp kiȳ hlv lծ ijp kJwl Jju. Dյ cuծ mkn&kuծ vmm DOJ Dmll. biu YkvJ nj Dmuub cu DF& yybv Duu ji ho DUKlb (Ykv DUKCb). biu YkvJ nj Dmuub cu DF& yy jikukj Jm omll, jikukj lb Dkp, nkYk Jm youll ծ lhյu u#l kll (Ykv u#l kCb). YkvJ nj biub Dmuub cu DhC Jճ Jukj DF&k[ubv ji l, n hJv ƵJll (YkvbcOv ƵJCb) YkvJod nj Dmuub cu Dhu Ykv c@vp Jjճu ƵJlb. Go. huJbv j[ukj ji l Dmum cu j[kbmb kvn j[l vn. YkvJo nj Dmuu cul n mk& IJ mh[ll. hC Ykv mcpCb n Ju cu mk&mOjChCb vblj Dճ<lծ ƵJl plb. mOjChC pkn l lJ&mbil kծj J uill, lkn lbv Ykv mcp uill.
Dhu cuծ Ykv mcpv ICm huJ cnCv Dhuu mkl뮳 Ykvbyuծ pCk DmCb cnkծb jlb. lcU DhC kծj Jm Jjl, n cnkծb jlb. DhC DvJo Dhu KN Ykv uhkl, Ykvb oYu Jjl, hC cU DhC kmlk mkJjCb Ul. c$ Dhu Dkpծ v DC y@[ uBikp Dhu kJwlkյ kmbil Dml. cub kilv Dhu cuծ KN Ykv u#l I. Dhub cu SK yoծ Dlkhj lj Jjl vn v, J[n u# hjk. Ykv kJwl Jjlv lcծb cu DlյճJwl Jjl J, cu [hm[ klb, Dյ yob khj Jjlb J, J[ u# . cuծ kiCl omNu o< oCb, luv, Gu Gjb oCb, SKu uyu JjCb, Kb yuCb Dյ u#Cb omum lbv ll[v DU Iuk.
YkvJ mcm mklu, cuu, Dhu Dhlbv Jk hjmLlu o< oCSkp mkl뮳 Ykvbv Jyl kճծ hϳlv Jj. cnCp cK& Dnm l Dm cnCCSkp lP kiCծ cu $m nl, Dmb cnC. Jl vo& Dnm l Skp c Kh n& Pu, yoblu Ykv cuu DOJ i hlv JUlu..
Dhu cub Ykvb Joj Jj. c DcJ Jub, lj lu Jmb ku? c DcJ vn Jub, lj lu Jmb ku ?, Dmb hϵv lbmcj GhmLl Jv lbv vC&hƯl mnYi Jv I.
cuծ Ykv mcpv ICb, lb Doj Jj, lb hl mnYk oKkCb, DkյJ jlb.
Ykvbhmv Jnlj mJjlcJ cUkCծ hϳlv Jjճu nk. phJj mklu cu Jmb klb DC Jv cu DOJ sv ku, Dmb kծjCb DkյJ Dmlb, lծ hJj Dhu cuu lu Jmb klb, Jv lu DCKv sv ku, Dmb kծjCbn mbJwlJ Dmlb.
Dhu cuu mjK muu oT vճ. lu mjKb Dj[ vճ, J J vճ Jbk OJl kCծ hϳlv J vճ. lh# lծb cnCCb mnYkv (empathy), lvcճlvb SJ.
Dhuu DC Dhu cubv Jc uKCN uJbhmv oj jn. n vncǮ Jw vmub, lj nl nF&u, lk{b Dյ uJbmyl JclJc kU J{k. lbv lcծ cubkj DC lcծkj cvmJ kծ&mk ipk oT vJ.
Ykvbyu cub cJUhCv yu. cuu hj#l Jc iC cUu Dmlu, lj lu l v lծ Ykv kiȳ Dnl, n u#l k. lmb l v lծ iC kiȳ i Dnl, cui Dk[l hC lծ iC hmbl vnl, l Jm k{kl lu, yu lծյ yu. hj# vJuծ JukOl Dlcnʳ DvJ hJjCb I[ll. kU cubv vJjub pCծ Ykv sUl Dml, n u#l Iճu nkb. cnCv cumyl mbko k{k. cubv uyu uk vJ. lu Ykv kJwl JjCծ mkճ uk.
Dpծb m$ Djiծ jjJ, cvmJ, mcpJ DC DOlcJ Dm j hlv kծj Jjlb, ծb Yv cuu k{klv jKCb DkյJ Dn. Dhu cvծ Dlu ((intimate), Jby DC Jc, DOlcJ Dm lv Jhh h[ll. cub c nl pll, lkn Jhhbb kiUhC cub u#l l Dmlb. c$ p[CI[Cl huJ cuծ k Gu Jll. cub YkvJ kJmyu yulv huJbv n u#l kճu nkb, J SJ hճ Dhu yl Dm k, DC omj hճ cuծ yl JCb DkյJ Dn. pvchmv mcj 9 k<& kճhճեl cu huJbkj yNծDb Dkubyv Dml. lcU c llJm J vn, c$ huJ J Dյ mLll l Dml. 6 k<եhmv lծl vC&#cl l. mu Jb[vbi knճu mkl nl DC llv l lծ Ykv kJwl Jjճu ƵJl. 8 - 13 k<ե kճl c J c$, huJ J vnl, Dյ cuծ cvmJ mLl Dml. kճl lծl kikiU jjJ you nl Dmll. Dյ ibOUuu mLll lu Dhu Ykv vcJhCv kJwl J Jjkl, nn v Gcpl vmlb. 13 l 19 kճil lj cn J vn, huJn J vn Dյ mLll Dmll. kճl ji, mblh, vjյ, c$cb[UǮ hYk Dյ mkYkkƵ Dmll DC 20 k<ե v lvblj c J DC huJn J Dյ cvmJl OjC nl. kճvmj Dhu cul nCN cvmJ youbyyl huJbv mlJ& jnub hnp.
huJb y@[ uBikpcOv cubv mkJj v vJj u#l l. cub yulv yo 10 , Dkp 30 DC y@[ uBikp 60 hYk jl Dml. cub kilv y@[ uBikpծ Kh c hYk h[l. mhյ& mbkov Kh cnkծ jl. lcU cuյ kilv trust, talk, time, touch Dm j U GhճJwl jll, lmb bawarenes, admitt, accept, adjust, appreciate Dm j A GhճJwl jll.
cubv mcpv ICծ hƯl mll nkb DC JccCn nk. cubv Dlcmvcv Dml. lu huJbcU OJwJ ymum lb Ykv oKkll. cnCv cubv Iuvh[v yu vJ. cub Ghnmv yuul, lj cub cvl ibOU vc&C nl. mbkoծ DYkcU cubcO DC huJbcO YkvJ Dblj vc&C nlb DC lcU Kb yuCb, Gu Gjb oCb Dյ Jl cub Jjll. cubv Yl IuCb, o<Cb oCb, uyubi JjCb, luv JjCb Dmb huJbv JOn J vճ. cub mbko mOCծ hϳlv Juv JbyJ Dճ<ծ op& DOJ Gbkl.
Dp cubyu huJb cvl DvJ Dh# Dmll. Dh# vkn, ciCծ Dmll. c$ lcU cub cvl YkvJ, jjJ, mcpJ Dmj#ll l. ծ lծ kJwlckkj vJjlcJ hjCc nl, n huJbv Ovl kճu nkb. YkvbJծ kծj Jjlv Ykvb pCk Jv oCb, Ykvb Ghճi JjCb, Ykvb mbcC JjC (JcvJv), Ykvb DUK Jv oC DC Ykv u#l kCb Dյ hծ hճN Dmll. mkl뮳 YkvbcOv DhC ƵJl pl, n mkln u#l kkb DC cubvn l ƵJkkb. JjC lvծ cuծ YkvJ kJm nl Dml.
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